MINDER.COMMUNITY

The conversation you’ve been meaning to have.

MINDER helps you start it — gently, over a card game if you like — and grows it into a circle of people who check on each other. Built before anyone needs it. Strengthened as they do.

Start your circle Draw a conversation starter

private by design · AI stays on the device · works with secure messengers like Signal · free to start

all quiet · a normal week
JUNE Saw the pharmacy run on the list. Want company Thursday?
RUTH Company, and a rematch. Bring the Uno deck.
ECHO · THE AGENT Thursday 3pm noted. The circle rests easy this week.
Ruth checked in — all quiet this week.

You've noticed. That's how every circle starts.

THE MAIL

Dad’s fine. But the envelopes are piling up, and you noticed.

MINDER inventories the obligations that keep life independent — bills, refills, rides — and alerts only on exceptions. Silence is a good report.

THE QUESTION

You know you should ask about the will. You don’t know how to start.

Conversation starters ride on game nights, easiest first. The legal ones arrive when the room is already warm.

THE DISTANCE

You’d be there in a heartbeat — if you knew which heartbeat.

Roles, check-in rhythms, and a clear escalation path: friend, family, caregiver, counsel. Everyone knows their part before it’s needed.

MINDER is not a monitor and it is not for "patients." It's the infrastructure a family builds together, ideally while everyone is well — so that if a day comes when someone isn't, the right people already know what matters and are already in the habit of showing up. And when the starting point is someone already drifting out of reach, the circle is how you team up to bring them back in — several people, small check-ins, nobody carrying it alone.

Three moves. Then it's a habit.

the Network Health program
01

Take stock together

A preparedness conversation across six domains — finances, legal, health, daily living, social, digital — and each domain covered earns its check. Nobody starts with all six; the missing checks become your family’s roadmap.

20 minutes · counts as the first conversation
02

Invite the first person

One trusted person, a named role, and permissions granted by scope with an expiry — staged so everyone sees exactly who can see what. Revocable anytime, in one gesture.

most circles form within a week
03

Keep the rhythm

Asynchronous check-ins at each relationship’s natural pace — maybe weekly with your sister, now and then with an old friend. MINDER nudges sparingly, never nags, and the questions deepen through play, not paperwork.

silence is a good report · alerts on exceptions only

your circle, assembling — one arrival at a time, each greeted in its own style

The hard questions, on the easiest moments.

Nobody opens with "where is your will?" MINDER keeps 78 conversation starters keyed to game nights — Uno, Jenga, Scrabble, Catan — so the big questions arrive as small ones, exactly when everyone's laughing. Answers file themselves into your family's story library and legal packet, with consent, every time.

Warm memories come first. Health care proxies come later — after a Wild Draw-4, when they're easy.

SOCIAL ✓

A time you felt loved.

Uno — after any color-matching card. Frequent, low friction. Saves to the story library.

Nothing leaves the phone unless you say so.

The AI runs on the device. Family messages travel end-to-end encrypted. Every permission is granted by name, by scope, with an expiry date — and revocable in one gesture. There is no company server holding your family's life.

MESSAGING

Works with secure messengers

Your family already talks somewhere private. MINDER meets them there — check-ins and nudges arrive over the encrypted messenger you already use, Signal first among them. Not another inbox.

ON THE PHONE

Contacts & Calendar

Reads the address book and calendar you already keep — birthdays, appointments, the people who matter — with permission, on the device.

UNDER THE HOOD

Matrix, end-to-end encrypted

The network runs on the open Matrix protocol. No lock-in: your family’s data is portable, federated, and never parked on our servers.

THE AI

On-device models

Language models run locally — zero cost per question, nothing sent to a cloud unless you explicitly opt in for a specific task.

deny-by-default access · consent tokens with expiry · tamper-evident audit trail your family can read

the circle, at home move your pointer — they notice, each in their own time click — something happens

Heard at a kitchen table

scrolls into play · or replay below
Marc

Another app, Ruth? More AI in the house, more listening, another subscription that locks you in.

Ruth

That’s exactly why I asked you first. Go on — ask it.

Echo

Fair worries, Marc. The models run on this phone. Nothing leaves it, and a question costs nothing.

Marc

Until the company folds and the family’s data is hostage.

Echo

The network runs on Matrix — open and end-to-end encrypted. If MINDER disappears tomorrow, the data walks out with the family.

Marc

And I’d be checking in over… what, exactly?

Echo

Whatever secure messenger you already use — Signal, say. No new inbox. And anything Ruth grants you, she can revoke in one gesture.

Marc

…Fine. Who holds the spare key?

Ruth

Now you’re in the circle.

every objection answered by architecture, not policy — see how

Bringing in the person you're thinking of

MINDER is built for two of you: someone who wants to help, and someone who could use a hand with the digital side of life. The connection forms at their pace, on their terms — here is how founding minders do it.

WEEK ONE

Build your circle first

You onboard yourself before anyone else — your accounts, your people, your six checks in progress. When you arrive with your own circle, you’re inviting them into something you do, not something you’re doing to them.

THE ASK

Invite with dignity

The ask is never "I’m worried about you." It’s "be in my circle." They join as your minder first — the roles are mutual from day one, and nobody is cast as the patient.

CONSENT LADDER

Start with zero access

The first assistance mode is Advise & Remind: no accounts, no passwords, no monitoring. Supported actions and delegated authority come later — each by explicit, named, revocable consent.

THEIR PACE

Meet them where they are

Check-ins over the messenger they already trust, an interface that grows calmer as needs change, voice when typing is hard — and game nights carrying the questions that matter.

THE ASK, WORD FOR WORD

"I set this up for myself — my accounts, my people, my what-ifs. I'd like you in my circle. And honestly, I'd feel better if we did yours too."

Become a founding minder

first cohort · 30–50 households · late 2026

We're recruiting people like you: healthy, organized, quietly worried about someone — and willing to go first. Founding minders build their own circle, connect one person who needs digital support, and shape what MINDER becomes. In return: the standard tier free forever, a direct line to the research team, and the printed Network Health drill kit.

Real families never beta-test safety. Every agent behavior was exercised against synthetic families first — over 1,000 interactions across six agents and 46 tools — with the results below, before the first household joins. The research behind it is in independent peer review.

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Synthetic interactions before humans 1,000+
Security violations in testing 0
Audit-chain integrity 100%
Deny-by-default, held across roles 7 / 7
Scenario success gate > 95%
Escalation routing gate > 90%
validation gates passed before recruitment · paper in independent peer review

someone always goes first — crossing alone, greeting on the way, holding the far side until the others arrive

MEMBER WAITLIST · FIRST COHORT

Put your household on the list.

The founding cohort is 30–50 households, onboarded personally, starting late 2026. We ask three things and nothing else — no phone number, no address, no marketing consent buried in the fine print.

· your name and email live on one list, encrypted, until we call · one email when your cohort opens — nothing before, nothing after · reply "remove" any time and the row is deleted, not flagged
stored encrypted · never shared · deleted on request
CLINICAL & RESEARCH PARTNERS · SEPARATE TRACK

Pilot MINDER with the people you serve.

For geriatric practices, health systems, community-based organizations, and researchers in aging. Partners get what families get — plus the evidence layer: the full validation suite, a readable audit trail, and a pilot protocol we design together.

EVIDENCE, NOT CLAIMS

1,000+ synthetic interactions before any human household; zero security violations; deny-by-default held across all seven roles. You review the raw validation suite, not a summary slide.

AUDIT YOU CAN READ

Every agent action lands in a tamper-evident audit trail — readable by families and reviewable by your compliance team. Consent is scoped, named, time-bound, revocable.

A PILOT DESIGNED TOGETHER

We co-write the protocol: your population, your outcome measures, IRB-ready documentation. Research basis submitted for independent peer review.

NO PLATFORM CAPTURE

Matrix underneath, on-device models, data portable by design. If a pilot ends, families keep everything — there is nothing to migrate off of.

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